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Who is Who

Tylee Ashlyn Ryan

  Tylee was described by friends as a fun loving, adventurous girl. Who was spunky, kind, generous, and easy to get along with. Her older brother Colby also speaks highly of his sister. Tylee loved photography and spending time outdoors.

  She adored her little brother with all her heart.

Facts:

  • Biological daughter of Lori Vallow and Joseph Ryan

  • Date of Birth: 9/24/2002

  • Age: 17

  • Last seen: 9/8/19

  • Last seen: Yellowstone National Park

Joshua Jaxon Vallow

  JJ was described by family as a fun, sweet boy who smiled and laughed easily. He was outgoing and friendly. Loved to sing and was an absolute joy to be around. He had his difficulties but they did't hold him back. His paternal grandparents miss him dearly and were the driving force in the nine month search for these children.

  Please help this family find justice for these precious children.

Facts:

  • Adopted son of Charles and Lori Vallow

  • Date of Birth: 5/25/2012

  • Age: 7

  • Last seen: 9/23/2019

  • Last seen: Kennedy Elementary School

Lori Norene
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  • Biological mother of Colby Ryan and Tylee Ryan, adopted mother of JJ Vallow, and person of interest in the disappearance of Tylee and JJ

  • Date of Arrest: 2/20/2020

  • Current location: Madison County Jail in Rexburg, ID

  • Married to: Chad Daybell (husband #5)

  • Notable: Married Chad Daybell less than two weeks after his wife, Tammy, died of suspicious causes

Charles Vallow
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  • Lori Vallow’s fourth husband and father to a biological son and two adopted sons, one of which is JJ

  • Date of marriage: 2/24/06

  • Date of death. 7/11/19

  • COD: Shot and killed by Lori Vallow’s brother, Alex Cox

  • Notable: Lori Vallow, Tylee Ryan, and JJ Vallow were home at the time of the shooting.

Chad Daybell
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  • Who is he: Influencer with the doomsday prepper group Preparing a People

  • Date of Arrest: 6/10/2020

  • Current location: Springville, UT

  • Married to: Lori Vallow

  • Notable: Chad was a cemetery sexton (grave digger) and wrote a book, One Foot in the Grave, about his experiences and interactions with departed spirits.

Tammy Daybell
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  • Wife of Chad Daybell who died in her sleep of suspicious causes

  • Date of death: 10/19/19

  • COD: Unknown, awaiting autopsy

  • Date of marriage: 3/9/90

  • Notable: Tammy was approached by a masked man carrying what she thought was a paintball gun 10 days before her death.

Alex Cox
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  • Lori Vallow’s brother

  • Date of death: 12/12/19

  • COD: Unknown (but suspicious)

  • Married to: Zulema Pastenes

  • Date of marriage: 11/29/19

  • Notable: Alex took Zulema’s last name.

Melani Pawlowski
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  • Lori Vallow’s niece who followed her into the cult Lori joined

  • Married to: Ian Pawlowski

  • Date of marriage: 11/30/19

  • Former spouses: Brandon Boudreaux

  • Notable: Melani married Ian Pawlowski 4.5 months after Ian Pawlowski was divorced and less than two weeks after she and Brandon Boudreaux were divorced.

Zulema Pastenes
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  • An LDS member and self-professed emotion code practitioner (she listed cuddling services in one of her profiles)

  • Married to: Alex Cox

  • Date of marriage: 11/29/19

  • Notables: Zulema married Alex Cox less than two weeks before his death; Cox took Zulema’s last name; and her 25-year-old son, Joseph Lopez, found Cox unresponsive in the bathroom, didn’t know his last name, and referred to Cox as his mom’s boyfriend, not husband.

Colby Ryan
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  • Lori Vallow’s adult biological son, Tylee and JJ’s half brother

  • Married to: Kelsee Ryan

  • Notable: Colby never knew where his mom and siblings moved to after they left Chandler, AZ.

Melanie Gibb
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  • Friend of Lori Vallow Daybell and Chad Daybell and the one Lori said Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow were with

  • Notable:

  • She and Lori introduce their new podcast, Time to Warrior Up, 12/5/18.

  • Early on someone said Chad was a guest in this kickoff episode, but I can’t confirm since the recordings have been taken down.

  • In Feb 2019 Chad wrote the forward of her book, Feel the Fire.

  • She is unresponsive to Rexburg Police Department’s attempt(s) to get ahold of her Nov 26th (the day they question Lori and Chad about the whereabouts of JJ Vallow), forcing RPD to reach out to the Gilbert Police Department. She doesn’t speak to them until the next day, giving Chad and Lori significant lead time to flee the state.

  • She waits 10 days to inform LE in Rexburg that both Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell had contacted her separately on Nov 26th and asked her to lie to detectives and tell them JJ was with her.

  • A source close to Gibb says she has retained an attorney is cooperating with authorities.

Brandon Boudreaux
  • Former husband of Melani Boudreaux and father of four children who was shot at

  • Married to: N/A

  • Former spouse: Melani Boudreaux

  • Notable: Brandon is shot at 10/2/19

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Kay and Larry Woodcock
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  •  JJ’s biological grandparents, Kay is Charles Vallow’s sister**

  • Notable: Larry and Kay have offered a $20,000 reward for information leading to the discovery of JJ and Tylee (source).

**Because Charles Vallow is JJ Vallow’s adopted father, Kay Woodcock is technically both JJ’s aunt and grandmother, but she identifies as JJ’s grandmother.

Julie Rowe
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  • Friend to Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell.

  • Notable:

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